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How to Deal Effectively with Anxiety
By Garrett Coan
Every human feels anxiety on occasion; it is a part of life. All of us know
what it is like to feel worry, nervousness, fear, and concern. We feel
nervous when we have to give a speech, go for a job interview, or walk into
our boss’s office for the annual performance appraisal. We know it’s normal
to feel a surge of fear when we unexpectedly see a photo of a snake or look
down from the top of a tall building. Most of us manage these kinds of
anxious feelings fairly well and are able to carry on with our lives without
much difficulty. These feelings don’t disrupt our lives.
But millions of people (an estimated 15% of the population) suffer from
devastating and constant anxiety that severely affects their lives,
sometimes resulting in living in highly restricted ways. These people
experience panic attacks, phobias, extreme shyness, obsessive thoughts, and
compulsive behaviors. The feeling of anxiety is a constant and dominating
force that disrupts their lives. Some become prisoners in their own homes,
unable to leave to work, drive, or visit the grocery store. For these
people, anxiety is much more than just an occasional wave of apprehension.
Types of Anxiety Disorders
An anxiety disorder affects a person’s behavior, thoughts, feelings, and
physical sensations. The most common anxiety disorders include the
following:
Social anxiety or social phobia is a fear of being around other people.
People who suffer from this disorder always feel self-conscious around
others. They have the feeling that everyone is watching them and staring at
them, being critical in some way. Because the anxiety is so painful, they
learn to stay away from social situations and avoid other people. Some
eventually need to be alone at all times, in a room with the door closed.
The feeling is pervasive and constant and even happens with people they
know.
People who have social anxiety know that their thoughts and fears are not
rational. They are aware that others are not actually judging or evaluating
them at every moment. But this knowledge does not make the feelings
disappear.
Panic disorder is a condition where a person has panic attacks without
warning. According to the National Institutes of Mental Health, about 5% of
the adult American population suffers from panic attacks. Some experts say
that this number is actually higher, since many people experience panic
attacks but never receive treatment.
Common symptoms of panic include:
• Racing or pounding heart
• Trembling
• Sweaty palms
• Feelings of terror
• Chest pains or heaviness in the chest
• Dizziness and lightheadedness
• Fear of dying
• Fear of going crazy
• Fear of losing control
• Feeling unable to catch one’s breath
• Tingling in the hands, feet, legs, or arms
A panic attack typically lasts several minutes and is extremely upsetting
and frightening. In some cases, panic attacks last longer than a few minutes
or strike several times in a short time period.
A panic attack is often followed by feelings of depression and helplessness.
Most people who have experienced panic say that the greatest fear is that
the panic attack will happen again.
Many times, the person who has a panic attack doesn’t know what caused it.
It seems to have come “out of the blue.” At other times, people report that
they were feeling extreme stress or had encountered difficult times and
weren’t surprised that they had a panic attack.
Generalized anxiety disorder is quite common, affecting an estimated 3 to 4%
of the population. This disorder fills a person’s life with worry, anxiety,
and fear. People who have this disorder are always thinking and dwelling on
the “what ifs” of every situation. It feels like there is no way out of the
vicious cycle of anxiety and worry. The person often becomes depressed about
life and their inability to stop worrying.
People who have generalized anxiety usually do not avoid situations, and
they don’t generally have panic attacks. They can become incapacitated by an
inability to shut the mind off, and are overcome with feelings of worry,
dread, fatigue, and a loss of interest in life. The person usually realizes
these feelings are irrational, but the feelings are also very real. The
person’s mood can change from day to day, or even hour to hour. Feelings of
anxiety and mood swings become a pattern that severely disrupts the quality
of life.
People with generalized anxiety disorder often have physical symptoms
including headaches, irritability, frustration, trembling, inability to
concentrate, and sleep disturbances. They may also have symptoms of social
phobia and panic disorder.
Other types of anxiety disorders include:
Phobia, fearing a specific object or situation.
Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), a system of ritualized behaviors or
obsessions that are driven by anxious thoughts.
Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), severe anxiety that is triggered by
memories of a past traumatic experience.
Agoraphobia, disabling fear that prevents one from leaving home or another
safe place.
Treatment Options
Most people who suffer from anxiety disorders begin to feel better when they
receive the proper treatment. It can be difficult to identify the correct
treatment, however, because each person’s anxiety is caused by a unique set
of factors. It can be frustrating for the client when treatment is not
immediately successful or takes longer than hoped for. Some clients feel
better after a few weeks or months of treatment, while others may need a
year or more. If a person has an anxiety disorder in combination with
another disorder (such as alcoholism and depression), treatment is more
complicated and takes longer.
While a treatment plan must be specifically designed for each individual,
there are a number of standard approaches. Mental health professionals who
specialize in treating anxiety most often use a combination of the following
treatments. There is no single correct approach.
Cognitive Therapy
The client learns how to identify and change unproductive thought patterns
by observing his or her feelings and learning to separate realistic from
unrealistic thoughts.
Behavior Therapy
This treatment helps the client alter and control unwanted behavior.
Systematic desensitization, a type of behavior therapy, is often used to
help people with phobias and OCD. The client is exposed to anxiety-producing
stimuli one small step at a time, gradually increasing his or her tolerance
to situations that have produced disabling anxiety.
Relaxation Training
Many people with anxiety disorders benefit from self-hypnosis, guided
visualization, and biofeedback. Relaxation training is often part of
psychotherapy.
Medication
Antidepressant and antianxiety medications can help restore chemical
imbalances that cause symptoms of anxiety. This is an effective treatment
for many people, especially in combination with psychotherapy.
The treatment for an anxiety disorder depends on the severity and length of
the problem. The client’s willingness to actively participate in treatment
is also an important factor. When a person with panic is motivated to try
new behaviors and practice new skills and techniques, he or she can learn to
change the way the brain responds to familiar thoughts and feelings that
have previously caused anxiety.
About the author:
Garrett Coan is a professional therapist,coach and psychotherapist. His two
Northern New Jersey office locations are accessible to individuals who
reside in Bergen County, Essex County, Passaic County, Rockland County, and
Manhattan. He offers online and telephone coaching and counseling services
for those who live at a distance. He can be accessed through
http://www.creativecounselors.com
or 201-303-4303.
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