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Get Started! Do Something!
By Kate Harperl
This is about getting started. Taking that first step. It is so easy to moan
about our lives and complain that things aren’t how we want them to be. We
all do it. We all have done it! So how can we break out of that moaning
habit and turn it into a doing one? Making the decision to do something is
the first step – but taking action is the most important one. So you get it
wrong. It can happen. What do you do? Do you lay there on the ground feeling
sorry for yourself while life carries on around you, or do you pick yourself
up, dust yourself down and do something else? Come on! Get going! Be a doer!
From now on do something new that will move you forward to achieve the life
you want! And whatever you do, do it with enthusiasm, with gusto and with
commitment!
Do Something to move you towards your goals. Do the things you want to
achieve seem too big or too far off in the future? Each goal can be broken
down into little steps which will lead you to your dream. Is what you do
each day helping you to achieve your goals? Ask yourself ‘what small thing
(or big thing, if you like) can I do today that will move me towards
achieving my goal?’ Then do it!
Do Something today that you’ve been putting off for a while. It’s that
dreaded word – procrastination! Some of the things you put off do need some
preparation, but others could be started straight away, if you put your mind
to it. Decide that this is the day to get going on that list of things that
has been weighing you down for so long. Large tasks can be broken down into
smaller ones, and those that can be completed in minutes will be completed
in minutes – if you only just start them!
Do Something for yourself. Enjoy your life now. Don’t wait for some far-off
time when conditions may be right to start making the most of the life you
have. Your time is precious. Make every second of it count. What do you
enjoy doing? Do you make time to do it? Who do you like being with? Do you
spend time with them? Do you speak to them and tell them how much they
matter to you?
Do Something active every day. It doesn’t have to be formal exercise, just
something that gets your body moving. Take the stairs instead of the lift,
go out for a walk in your lunch break, and dance to the radio as you make
your tea in the morning. Adding that extra bit of activity will make a great
difference to you mentally and physically.
Do Something because you want to, not because you have to. Doing something
that you don’t want to do, but feel you ought to, will make you feel more
stressed, disgruntled and resentful. Be clear, to yourself, and the people
you interact with, about what you are, and are not, prepared to do. Don’t
get into a fight about it, but be assertive and clearly state your position.
Most people will respect you for it.
Do Something new every day. Listen to a different radio station, join a new
club, sign up for a new course or start a new book. Routine can make our
lives simpler, but too much routine can numb our brain. Adding something new
everyday keeps you stimulated. It doesn’t have to be anything major. Trying
a new type of coffee would count!
Do Something creative every week. Doodling, gardening, painting, crafts,
working with fabrics, even cooking something you’ve never attempted before.
Write a poem, a short story or even a letter to someone you’ve been thinking
about. This will keep your creative juices flowing and keep your brain
limbered up, whilst giving you satisfaction at having produced something for
yourself.
Do Something for nothing. This is really doing something for someone else
and not expecting any reward or return, just doing it because you can and it
makes a difference. Enough said.
Do enjoy this quote:
‘It is essential to our well-being, and to our lives, that we play and enjoy
life. Every single day do something that makes your heart sing.’ -- Wieder
Marcia
Just remember, if you're feeling flat, even if it’s only a little thing, do
something!
About the author:
Kate Harper is based in the beautiful Highlands of Scotland. Check out her
website http://www.harpercoaching.com . She works with people who are fed up
with moaning about their lives and have decided to do something about it. If
that is you, please take a look at Kate's website. She is happy to work with
people from any part of the world.
"The distance is nothing; it is only the first
step that is difficult."
Madame Marie du Deffand
Take your first step today and contact Kate.
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